How to Improve Your Self-Confidence After a Car Accident - Introvert Whisperer

Introvert Whisperer / How to Improve Your Self-Confidence After a Car Accident - Introvert Whisperer How to Improve Your Self-Confidence After a Car Accident I was a confident woman. You must know this type â€" the one that always grabs her chances. I successfully balanced between my personal and professional life. I held control over more or less everything that mattered to me. I worked really hard and I still do. My family is my greatest support. I love my husband and my kids. In a word, I have everything I need to be happy. And I am happy! And I am grateful too… Probably more than I ever was! Why now? Well, that’s because I recently learned one of the greatest life lessons. A few months ago, my car smashed into a big traffic sign when I was rushing to my office. Firstly, I was devastated. Then I lost my self-esteem. Then I suffered. These days, I’m dealing with my struggles and anxieties, but I know that I’m headed in the right direction. How? Here’s my story. I stopped blaming myself for the accident Like I said, I used to be a fighter who rises to the challenge. But after the accident, the situation has changed. These days, I feel that I need to endure so much. Sometimes ‘so much’ becomes ‘too much’. I am still afraid of opening up about the storm inside my head. I suspect that my family won’t really understand me. It’s tough, there’s no doubt about it. I rarely ever speak about this, but I’ve noticed a gradual improvement once I started being kind to myself. I am still working on this, but my first advice to everyone who goes through a similar situation would be to love themselves in spite of the frustration, anger, and disappointment. Saying ‘Hi, dear’ to yourself with a big smile on your face in the morning will do wonders for your self-respect.